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The Philadelphia Experience with Parent Cafés
On August 15, 2018, the Philadelphia Department of Human Services held their fourth annual Strengthening Families Summit, which debuted this video introducing Parent Cafés from the perspective of parent leaders.

Listening for Your Truth in Cafés and Other Safe Spaces
I understand the value and the power of positive thinking, of positive words and actions. I know how they build Protective Factors and enhance vitality. I also experience the tyranny of disciplining and forcing oneself to conform to the positive and shaming oneself if it feels like you’ve deviated from the path.

Discover The Best of What Is
In July 2018, Be Strong Families started a year-long strategic planning process using appreciative inquiry, under the expert leadership of Yoland Trevino, founder of Transformative Collaborations International. The power of appreciative inquiry is that it taps into the stories of what an organization’s members believe is best and how those stories can be used to create new futures for the organization.

Reflexiones Apreciativas / Appreciative Reflections
¡Es maravilloso y muy significativo para mí el tener la oportunidad de promover los Factores de Protección e impactar la vida de otras personas a través de entrenamientos, Cafés para Padres, conferencias, talleres, etc. El ser una persona inclusiva y el poder asistir a otros grupos con diferentes lenguajes, y culturas en el mundo es también parte de mi sueño!
It is wonderful, and very significant for me, to have the opportunity to promote the Protective Factors and to touch other people’s lives through trainings, Parent Cafés, conferences, workshops, etc. Being inclusive and assisting other language groups, cultures in the world is also part of my personal dream.

From Breakdown to Breakthrough: Vanessa’s Story
The American Academy of Pediatrics cites toxic stress as one of today’s greatest threats to children’s health, and what threatens a child’s health also threatens the health and well-being of the family.

Intimacy Issues and Protective Factors
It's no surprise that the confusion central to Adult Attachment Disorder results from the experiences we had as children with our parents. The way I understand it, there are 4 possible primary stances to relationship. When it comes to intimate relationships, do you feel secure? Do you avoid them? Are you ambivalent? Or are you completely disorganized?

Wanted - A New Type of Foster Parent
This week I had an interesting conversation with a colleague. She was using my experiences as a foster parent to help shape redesigning the child welfare system in America. We talked for 40 minutes and the conversation has been playing in my head for days. One of her main questions was—How do we place an emphasis on maintaining children with their families while messaging that foster parents do good work—and only should be used as a last resort?

A White Sister’s Experience with Transracial Adoption
About a year after my brother moved in with my family, I was in the toy aisle of Target staring at a bunch of Ryan Reynolds look-alikes. I was beyond frustrated—Green Lantern was his favorite superhero, because he was Black like him. But the 2011 remake meant that the only Black action figures at Target were some half-price villains in the clearance bin. At 16, the symbolism was not lost on me.

Maryville Academy Launches Parent Cafés in Austin
Maryville is committed to facilitating meaningful collaborative conversations with parents to help them achieve greater success in their parenting initiatives. We are able to facilitate transformative conversations by creating a safe space for parents to share and learn from each other. We have already seen partnerships forming amongst participants. Parents have the ability to feel connected to other parents which provides support to them. The peer-to-peer sharing and learning is exciting to watch.

Your Children Are Not Your Children.
No matter where I am on my (growth) journey as a parent, that first line of Gibran’s poem always gets me; a punch, right in my gut. It’s a natural, normal parental reaction to an obvious fact—I birthed them, raised them, loved and nurtured them, provided and protected them, encouraged and supported all of their hopes and dreams. So yes, they belong to me!