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Parent Cafés
Designed to build the Strengthening Families™ Protective Factors
This is a conversation deck with 150 questions based on the five Protective Factors for parents whose children are identifying as part of the LGBTQIA+ community. While most approaches to this issue rest heavily on training for parents about the importance of acceptance for long-term positive outcomes for children, these Cafés are for parents who don’t need to be convinced. They love their children, they want to support them, and they are wrestling with their own feelings, values, fears, and limiting beliefs.
The foundation for the deck is: 1) the assumption of parents’ unconditional love for their children and their willingness to practice self-awareness and to surface and interrogate their biases, and 2) full knowledge of the benefits of listening and talking through thorny subjects in the safe context of Parent Cafés. The design team is a collaboration of parents with lived experience supporting their children’s gender and sexual orientation journey to discover and live true to who they are, as well as professionals who have devoted their professional lives to assisting LGBTQIA+ youth and the adults who love them.
This deck is co-created with our partners Family Builders and Gender Spectrum.
The flagship Parent Café deck updated and expanded, featuring 96 updated questions focusing on equity, diversity, and inclusion (EDI).
This Parent Café in a Box has 325 total questions, bilingual in English and Spanish.This revision is co-created by Be Strong Families and its community, with input from people who have both lived and have professional experience with EDI and LGBTQIA+ inclusion and racial equity. Focusing on the five Protective Factors, the Parent Café in a Box is a portable, easy-to-use resource to support your local parent engagement efforts.
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Assistance with navigating our kids’ adolescence.
As our children mature and become teenagers and emerging adults, there are countless new challenges that parents face raising them. Our Parent Cafés for Parents of Teens & Emerging Adults support parents in having real, authentic conversations with other parents around these challenges, and this Café in a Box features 200 questions in both English and Spanish that use the five Protective Factors to facilitate these conversations.
The box can be used either as a standalone deck or shuffled together with other conversation decks in Be Strong Families’ Parent Café in a Box suite. Each question on these Café in a Box cards assists parents in having honest, in-depth dialogues with other parents that will strengthen their understanding of their own role as parents and how to truly engage with their teenagers and emerging adults.
The Parent Café in a Box: Swahili deck includes 31 double-sided laminated cards, step-by-step information for hosting an entire Café and are in both English and Swahili.
Parent Café in a Box is a portable, easy-to-use resource to support your local parent engagement efforts.
The Parent Café in a Box French deck includes 45 double-sided cards; with questions focusing on the five Protective Factors.
Parent Café in a Box is a portable, easy-to-use resource to support your local parent engagement efforts.
This Parent Café in a Box set includes 20 question cards, each of Traditional and Simplified Chinese questions focusing on the five Protective Factors.
Parent Café in a Box is a portable, easy-to-use resource to support your local parent engagement efforts.
Designed by fathers for fathers.
REVISED AND EXPANDED! The Dads Parent Café in a Box opens the door to authentic, engaging dialogue around a variety of father-focused topics, including societal expectations of men as parents, being a positive male role model in the family unit, challenges and successes as expressed by fathers, co-parenting in the modern world, and much more. If you are trying to connect with fathers, this Café in a Box can do just that by assisting organizations, parents, and community members in expanding their Café themes and attracting more fathers to get involved in support programs.
This revamped deck features 55 Café cards (total 275 questions) in both English and Spanish, with questions consistent with best practices for father engagement in family service and fatherhood programs. It includes updated content based on feedback from the Be Strong Families community and fosters a safe and trusting environment for fathers or mixed-gender groups to learn about the Strengthening Families™ Protective Factors while building and encouraging deep self-reflection and peer-to-peer learning.
Conversations to build justice and peace.
A More Perfect Union conversations occur at the nexus of social justice and parenting, allowing parents to explore the broader context for parenting in a complicated and often unjust world. Organized around the Strengthening Families™ Protective Factors, the questions in this Café in a Box mobilize shared civic values of freedom, prosperity, safety, justice, and healing to assist parents in talking to their children about difficult issues and brainstorming how to keep their families safe.
A More Perfect Union Parent Café in a Box contains over 300 bilingual (English/Spanish) questions, organized by the five Protective Factors, that allow parents to explore the broader context for parenting in a complicated and often unjust world. These questions can be used by themselves or used along with our original Parent Café in a Box.
Vitality Cafés
Conversations to promote well-being
Our Third Act Café deck is intended for people who are mature and moving out of parenting as a main life focus, and are thinking more seriously about what retirement might mean. This deck will encourage people to share about the wisdom and confidence they have, trade stories about relationships across generations, grand-parenting, caregiving, and legacy. These Cafés celebrate the fullness and possibilities of this time of life and envision a society where elders feel honored and revered even if only by each other!
This booster pack features 30 cards in both English and Spanish that can be used as a stand-alone Café resource, mixed into other Vitality Café in a Box decks, or used in one-on-one conversations.
We all know the saying, “It takes a village to raise a child.” This is especially true in the case of children with disabilities. Parents of children with disabilities face the same challenges as every parent—with added complexities, higher stress, more unknowns, and often, a completely shifted family foundation. Parent Cafés for parents of children with disabilities can assist families with gaining the knowledge, resources, support, and understanding that come with the territory. That’s what this Café Booster Pack is all about.
This booster pack features 30 cards in both English and Spanish that can be used as a stand-alone Café resource, mixed into other Café in a Box decks that utilize the Domains of Vitality, or used in one-on-one conversations.
The flagship original Vitality Café organized around domains of holistic vitality.
This Café toolkit is based on the realization that a strong family is a healthy family. Each Journey to Vitality Café in a Box includes a full deck of bilingual (English/Spanish) question cards with over 200 questions that focus on the six Vitality Domains, as well as a link to an online Café guide.
Conversations for people struggling with addiction and those who love them.
The Recovering Together Café in a Box consists of 300 questions in both English and Spanish. The premise of Recovering Together Cafés is that any personal transformative change effort is enhanced by social support: people struggling with addiction and the people who love them recover together.
This Café deck was co-created by Be Strong Families, Greater Tilton Family Resource Center in New Hampshire, and NET (NorthEast Treatment Centers) in Philadelphia, with input from more than 63 individuals who have both lived or have professional experience in the addiction recovery field. The Cafés promote holistic well-being by building Be Strong Families’ domains of Vitality: physical, mental/emotional, spiritual, financial, environmental, and social. We offer them as a valuable contribution to the recovery process, catalyzing peer support to sustain motivation.
While grief, trauma and loss are always part of the human experience, the social justice issues facing us have increased our collective experience, awareness, and need to process. At Be Strong Families, we know that communities are resilient and wise and that in the safe space created by Cafés, we can come together to support and assist one another with navigating and healing, which was the motivating energy behind this special focus booster pack for Journey to Vitality Cafés.
This booster pack features 27 cards in both English and Spanish that can be used as a stand-alone Café resource, mixed into other Café in a Box decks that utilize the Domains of Vitality, or used in one-on-one conversations.
#WoWTalk (Words of Wisdom) Cafés
For Youth and Emerging Adults
#WoWTalk (Words of Wisdom) Cafés for youth and emerging adults generate conversations that help build the Youth Thrive Protective and Promotive Factors, using Be Strong Families’ nationally recognized Café model. These Cafés foster intentional connections and healthy relationships among youth and the adults in their lives. #WoWTalk Cafés prepare youth and emerging adults for transition to adulthood, to be contributing members to the collective.
The questions and format have been tested with thousands of youths and emerging adults and provide a foundation for conversations about issues they grapple with. #WoWTalk conversations provide a safe space that encourages deep self-reflection and peer-to-peer learning.
The new #WoWTalk Café in a Box series comes in two decks. Each box includes a full deck of 4x6 inch size question cards, with over 220 questions that build the YouthThriveTM Protective and Promotive Factors. The question cards are in both English and Spanish.
This is Deck One.
Deck Two will be coming soon!
Creating the Café Ambiance
This is the mini Journal with pages designed with 366-day (1-year) #AMPlify prompts. It is an additional resource to be paired up with the #AMPlify Daily Action Calendar.
Through the decisions we make in our day-to-day personal lives, we can choose to take actions that have a positive, concrete effect on those around us and the world as a whole. We can, as Gandhi famously said, “Be the change we want to see in the world.”
That’s what the #AMPlify Daily Action (Calendar & Journal) is all about! Each page features an #AMPlify hashtag created by the Be Strong Families community that relates to a Strengthening Families™ Protective Factor.
By using both the 366-day, 1-year Journal and the 366-day, 4-year perennial Calendar, you can reflect and write on the featured hashtag of the day. As the years go by, you can use both the #AMPlify Journal and #AMPlify Calendar to go back and reflect on the actions you have taken in past years, and create new actions as you grow and develop in your own unique #AMPlify lifestyle.
This is a ceramic mug, featuring the new Parent Café, Home Is Where the Heart Is: Conversations to Love and Affirm Your LGBTQIA+ Children. The 15 oz. campfire coffee mug style is perfect for your everyday drink and for gifting.
Through the decisions we make in our day-to-day personal lives, we can choose to take actions that have a positive, concrete effect on those around us and the world as a whole. We can, as Gandhi famously said, “Be the change we want to see in the world.”
That’s what the #AMPlify Daily Action Calendar & Journal is all about! Each page features an #AMPlify hashtag created by the Be Strong Families community that relates to a Strengthening Families™ Protective Factor.
By using both the 366-day, 1-year Journal and the 366-day, 4-year perennial Calendar, you can reflect and write on the featured hashtag of the day. As the years go by, you can use both the #AMPlify Journal and #AMPlify Calendar to go back and reflect on the actions you have taken in past years, and create new actions as you grow and develop in your own unique #AMPlify lifestyle.
This is only the #AMPlify Daily Action Calendar. For the additional resource (the 366-day #AMPlify Journal), please visit https://www.bestrongfamilies.org/shop/p/amplify-daily-action-journal
Café Commitment Cards serve as a tangible reminder for participants of the Café experience and their commitment to themselves. This pack of 100 Café Commitment Cards with envelopes will prepare you for future Cafés!
Café Agreements create the emotional safety that makes transformation possible at Cafés. This pack of 10 bilingual (English/Spanish) laminated Café Agreements is a key ingredient to a successful Café effort.
The Living the Protective Factors posters are sets of 5 posters at 11x17 size. They are great for decorating your program, home, or office. Each poster displays a way to live the Strengthening Families™ Protective Factors. Drawn from and reinforcing the content in Living the Protective Factors: How We Keep Our Children Safe and Families Strong book and Affirmation Cards, these posters can be used as informational and inspirational tools on your walls and wherever Parent Cafés are held.
This set of six 11x17 posters displays each of the Vitality Domains: Physical, Mental, Spiritual, Financial, Environmental, and Social. Perfect for decorating an office, gathering room, or Vitality Café!
The Journey to Vitality magnets are a set of six 3x 4.6 magnets. Each magnet displays one of the Vitality Domains: Physical, Mental/Emotional, Spiritual, Financial, Environmental, and Social. Perfect for decorating an office, gathering room, or Vitality Café!
Our mug features the Be Strong Families name and logo, and now you can own a mug that highlights a belief in changing the world by creating transformative conversations that nurture the spirit of family, promote well-being and prevent violence!
The Living the Protective Factors magnets are sets of five 4.25x2.75 magnets to decorate your program, home, or office. Each magnet displays a way to live the Strengthening Families™ Protective Factors. Drawn from and reinforcing the content in Living the Protective Factors: How We Keep Our Children Safe and Families Strong book and Affirmation Cards, these magnets can be used as informational and inspirational tools on your walls and wherever Parent Cafés are held.
Get a special deal with our Teens bundle! Contains two Café decks of $64 value.
Home Is Where the Heart Is: Conversations to Love and Affirm Your LGBTQIA+ Children (Parent Café Booster Pack) is a conversation deck with 150 questions based on the five Protective Factors for parents whose children are identifying as part of the LGBTQIA+ community. While most approaches to this issue rest heavily on training for parents about the importance of acceptance for long-term positive outcomes for children, these Cafés are for parents who don’t need to be convinced. They love their children, they want to support them, and they are wrestling with their own feelings, values, fears, and limiting beliefs.
The foundation for the deck is: 1) the assumption of parents’ unconditional love for their children and their willingness to practice self-awareness and to surface and interrogate their biases, and 2) full knowledge of the benefits of listening and talking through thorny subjects in the safe context of Parent Cafés. The design team is a collaboration of parents with lived experience supporting their children’s gender and sexual orientation journey to discover and live true to who they are, as well as professionals who have devoted their professional lives to assisting LGBTQIA+ youth and the adults who love them.
This deck is co-created with our partners Family Builders and Gender Spectrum.
Parents of Teens & Emerging Adults Parent Café in a Box is a conversation deck that assists with navigating our kids’ adolescence.
As our children mature and become teenagers and emerging adults, there are countless new challenges that parents face raising them. Our Parent Cafés for Parents of Teens & Emerging Adults support parents in having real, authentic conversations with other parents around these challenges, and this Café in a Box features 200 questions in both English and Spanish that use the five Protective Factors to facilitate these conversations.
The box can be used either as a standalone deck or shuffled together with other conversation decks in Be Strong Families’ Parent Café in a Box suite. Each question on these Café in a Box cards assists parents in having honest, in-depth dialogues with other parents that will strengthen their understanding of their own role as parents and how to truly engage with their teenagers and emerging adults.